June 13, 2025

Emotional Healing Is Not a Trend—It’s a Lifestyle Shift

“Before you grow, you’ve got to grieve. Before you heal, you’ve got to feel.”

Let me be clear: Emotional healing isn’t just lighting sage, journaling in cute notebooks, or posting affirmations under the moonlight. While that it a huge part of it and much needed, it’s also doing the raw, unpretty work that most folks avoid. It’s sitting in silence with your own pain until it starts making sense—and that’s when the real growth begins.

I know because I’ve lived it.


The Wounds We Don’t Talk About

In Black and Brown communities, we’ve been taught to "keep it moving," to be strong, to stay quiet about what hurt us. But strength without space to grieve is a slow death.

Many of us are carrying emotional trauma that didn’t start with us—but it’s trying to end with us.

Grief.
Abandonment.
Betrayal.
Family dysfunction.
Generational trauma.

These things shape our nervous systems, our identities, and our relationships. The healing process? It’s about unlearning what survival taught us.

We don’t need more noise. We need truth.
That’s what The Trigger and The Truth is about.


What Is Emotional Healing, Really?

Let’s break it down:

  • Emotional healing is the process of recognizing, feeling, and releasing past pain that still influences your present.

  • It requires self-awareness, emotional regulation, and most importantly, a safe space—which is exactly what this platform provides.

  • It’s not linear. Some days you’ll feel like a warrior. Other days, you’ll feel like a wound. Both are valid.


5 Things I Had to Learn (The Hard Way)

  1. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting – It means no longer letting the past control how you move today.

  2. You’re not “too emotional” – You’re just finally feeling what you weren’t allowed to.

  3. Boundaries are not disrespectful – They’re necessary for your nervous system.

  4. Avoidance delays healing – What we don’t face, we repeat.

  5. There’s no healing without honesty – That’s why this podcast exists.


Why This Work Matters for Our Communities

Let’s be real. Emotional healing isn’t just personal—it’s political, it’s ancestral, and it’s necessary.

We can’t talk about mental health without acknowledging:

  • Racism

  • Poverty

  • Incarceration

  • Addiction

  • Loss

And we can’t heal those wounds with silence.

We need storytelling.
We need safe spaces.
We need therapists who get us, and systems that support us.

That’s the mission behind The Trigger and The Truth.


For Potential Sponsors: Why Partner With Us

If you’re a brand, nonprofit, wellness professional, or mental health advocate—understand this:

People are craving authenticity and transformation.

Our audience is engaged, loyal, and ready to invest in their healing.

We speak to:

  • High-functioning women hiding in plain sight

  • Men fighting silent battles

  • Changemakers, caregivers, and survivors

When you partner with The Trigger and The Truth, you're not just buying ad space.
You’re investing in cultural wellness, community transformation, and visibility where it’s long overdue.


For Future Guests: Let’s Talk

If you’re a therapist, healer, advocate, survivor—or someone with a story that the world needs to hear—this platform is for you.

We don’t do fluff.
We do real talk.
Because when we tell the truth, we give others permission to start healing too.


Let’s Build. Let’s Heal. Together.

Healing is not a destination—it’s a lifestyle.
And the world doesn’t need more perfect people. It needs more honest ones.

🖤 If this spoke to you, share it.
📥 If you want to join the conversation as a guest or partner, reach out.
🎧 And if you haven’t yet, go listen to the latest episode of The Trigger and The Truth—where healing begins with truth.


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